Dearly Beloved...

Many couples tell me that celebrating their guests is as important to them as celebrating their love.  Make this known.  At the beginning of your ceremony, tell your guests exactly why you've invited them to attend your wedding.  What is it about having guests that is meaningful to you?  Why these particular people?  What do they contribute to your life?  What do you feel they will contribute to your marriage?

By sharing your thoughts with them, you invite them more deeply into your ceremony.  They will feel special.  And encouraged to support you as you endeavor into marriage.