Honoring A Deceased Relative.

Sadly, many brides and grooms have lost a parent prior to their wedding day.  Their presence, however, can be brought into your ceremony by honoring their memory with a simple, personalized ritual such as adding a flower to the bridal bouquet.

Here are instructions for the ritual honoring the deceased mother-of-the-bride.  It may be adapted, of course, to honor any family member(s).

Have your florist provide you with a special flower that can be easily slipped into your bouquet.  After your arrival at the altar and before anything else happens, a previously designated relative brings your groom this special flower.  He then slides it into the center of your bouquet, and the officiant says:  On this day, we honor the memory of the bride's beloved mother by adding a specially chosen flower to the bride's bouquet. 

Sweet.  Simple.  Joyful.  Pretty.