Sweet Charity.

In order to know "delight," we must also, unfortunately, know "suffering." One does not exist without the other. So, make something sweet and meaningful out of the delight of your wedding day by dedicating the merit of your love to world peace. Ex: As the very first ceremonial action (after your walk down the aisle), invite your maid of honor to light a candle and say something like this: "Today, may the merit of Tom and Natalie's love serve to enhance world peace."

This simple expression of generosity costs nothing, yet it opens the hearts of everyone present and adds to the glow of your wedding day.